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Hello again

I'm welwelcome back to llis happy hour

欢迎又回到露露的小酒馆

Most chinese people are still in the three day tiiming holiday in chinese tradition

Chimming is a day for remembrance

A day for us to cherish the memory of our loved ones who passed away

And also to pay tribute to our ancestors in the past few days you could see on social media

And also in many english speaking programs

Their long list of vocabulary related to chimmming the ritualals and the stories about this tradition

But this is not what i'm going to talk about in my show today

Because for most of us

Chimming is not just about the theoretical knowledge and words on paper

It is connected to a very soft part of your heart

It is a day for remembrance

And especially

If you have experienced the loss of a loved one

So in my episode today

露露is going to share with you

Some of the saings in engengsh by people who have also lost someone one thethey're trying to cherish their memory

今天小酒馆里就着清明

我们来说说怀念

In english

When someone passed away

You usually see the word in the loving memory of

In the loving memory of someone who passed away

Sometimes he's very difficult to forget someone who gives you so much to remember

So let's look at some of these sings from the famous two anonymous but a love and emotions in these words very genuine all the same

The first saying of the day from the greek plyright ereropedies 欧里毕德斯and he wrote

Come back

Even as a shadow

Even as a dream

归来吧

哪怕只是一片影子

一个梦境也好

归来吧

Come back

Even as a shadow

Even as a dream

Sometimes we can miss someone so much

But we don't even realize it

This is why in a second saying

It says sometimes memories sneak out of my eyes and roll down my cheeks

Sometimes memories sneak out of my eyes and roll down my cheeks sneak out means to secretly get out

So here memories turn into tears

有时回忆会从眼角偷偷溜出来

滑落我的腮边

We may not even realize how much we miss someone

Until we feel the tears

There are so many people in the world

Yet for us

There are only a few that truly matter

This is why

Saying number three said

Sometimes when one person is absent

The whole world seems depopulated

Sometimes when one person is absent

The whole world seems depopulated

Depopulated means not having enough people

明明只少了那么一个人

整个世上却都冷清了

Sometimes when one person is absent

The whole world seems depopulated

I'm sure a lot of people feel like that

When they've lost someone that mattered them the most

And this is why

People would give anything to have them back

Saying number four says

If tears could build a stairway and memories a lane

I'd walk right up to heaven and bring you home again

用眼泪和回忆能不能建成通向天国的阶梯接你回来团聚

If tears could build a stairway and memories a lane

And walk right up to heaven and bring you home again

And moving away from this overwhelming sadness and a sense of loss to are slightly more positive

Note say

Number five says

Perhaps they're not the stars but rather openings in heaven

Where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us

But let us know they're happy

夜空的繁星也许正是我们在天上的那些亲爱的人们流泻而出的爱意

让我们知道他们在天国很好

Perhaps they are not stars but rather openings in heaven

Where the love of our

The ones es pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they're happy

Whether you believe in heaven or not the connection between you and someone

You love and care about is likely to stay long after they're gone

Saying number six says

Those we love and lose are always connected by hard strings ings infinity

Ity hard strings here is the connection between two hearts

那些我们深爱的人即使离开

也不会切断两颗心之间永恒的纽带

Those we love and lose are always connected by hard strings into infinity

Same as insaying number seven

If the people we love are stolen from us the way to have them live on is to never stop loving them

只要我们心里仍然爱着我们深爱的人

就一直没有从这个世界离开

If the people we we ve ve are stolen from us

The way to have them live on is to never stop loving them

This reminds me of the hit film coco is the idea of as long as you remember someone they're never really gone and the last saying of the day is we never truly get over a loss

But we can move forward and evolve from it

We never truly get over a loss

But we can move forward and evolve from it

Evolve is to grow and to develop

我们也许永远无法忘却失去亲人

爱人或挚友的悲痛

但是我们仍然可以从这种悲痛中成长

继续向前

And in the end we finished today off with a note to all of us

Who are living

This is a famous saying by steve jobs

He said

Almost everything all external expectations or pride or fear of embarrasment or failure

These things just fall away in the face of death

Living only what is truly important

几乎所有的事

所有外界的期许

骄傲

碍于面子的担忧和对失败的恐惧在死亡面前都不值一提

Remembering that you are going to die is the best way i know to avoid the trap of thinking

You have something to lose

记住

我们每个人终将死去

才能避免在人生中患得患失

You are already naked

There is no reason not to follow your heart

我们都会赤裸裸的面对死亡

所以在活着的每天都去追随自己的心吧

You're already naked

There is no reason not to follow your heart

So with the loving memory of the loved ones that have passed away

We move on

We evolve

And we follow our hearts

And live every day as if it's your last one

I hope you enjoyed today's program until next time by