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Hello again

And welcome back to lluis happy hour

欢迎你又回到露露的小酒馆

First of all i would like to thank everyone for taking part in the first ever life broadcasting session

We did it on malia a platform on tuesday night

And was such a pity that i didn't have time to taking all the questions

But i promise that we will do more of these life broadcasts in the future but different topics

And i look forward to hearing more of your thoughts 呀

So as many of you may know today is the thanksgiving day in the united states

Even though it has nothing to do with china

Still a lot of people want to take this opportunity to say thank you

To people

They care about

And to things that they are thankful for so here is my thank you

我非常感恩的事情是

小酒馆从改版之后正式推出不到一年间

聚集了超过十五万粉丝

播放量已经超过了七百万

With simply

Couldn't have done it without the support from all of you

So a big big from you to things feel you out there

那借着小酒馆线上交流课程第二期火热招生之际

为了感恩回馈大家一路支持与与陪

露露和安兰将在十一月二十七号

也就是下周二的晚上

推出原价一百五十元

现在一元的的值体验课

揭秘小酒馆在线课程

一周七天

干货满满

乐趣不断的学习计划

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作为酒馆常客的你

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So on with the show as a language enthusiasst i love learning new things about the language especially new words and recently one of the biggest news in language is the unveiling of the oxford word of the year

Noting 词典年度热词

So every year the oxford dictionary they will choose one word as the oxford word of the year

According to their offperd website

It says the oxford word of the year is a word or expression

That has attracted a great deal of interest over the last twelve month

Every year we debate several candidates for word of the year

And choose a winner that is judged to reflect the ethos mood or preoccupations of that particular year

And to have lasting potential as a word of cultural significance

So a word of cultural significance is one of those words

That is so important

That is so much

Talked about in england speaking context

The past winners in the oxford word of the year elections include youthquake

Posttruth

Cell hie

前几年的年度热词包括youthquake 青年震荡

Posttruth 后真相

后真相时代

Cell hie 自拍

An interestingly one particular emergy in two thousand fifteen

That shows a face with tears of joy

二零一五年的年度热词不是一个词

而是一个表情符

也就是那个笑cry 的表情符

A face was tears of joy

So let's see

What is this year's winner

The two thousand eighteen winner is a very simple word

Toxic

Toxic

Toxic even though is very simple

It's so commonly used

If you check in dictionary

You would see it means poisonous 有毒

But it goes beyond the surface meaning

But before we look at toxic

Let's look at the three words or three sets of words to talk about do in english

I think the most commonly known one is poison

Poison

Poison

The nwn is poison

And then the adjective is poisonous

So for example we say he killed his enemy was poison 在家

And the second word is vannam

Vannam

Venom is also a kind of poison

But usually from an animal like a spider or snake

So venannam is the noun adjective venanamous

So we say this is a vennamous snake or vvanyamous spider

有读的蛇或者是蜘蛛

Now we come to toxin

Toxin

And the adjective is toxic

Toxic can mean different types of poison

We can say the factory is dumping toxic waste

这是有毒的废料

Or we can say alcohol is toxic to your liver

It means it's harmful to your liver

But going beyond the surface meaning

You can also say a toxic workplace or a toxic relationship 有毒的工作环境或者是一段感情

那one thing to note

But ticularly is that in chinese

We sometimes say 这个笑话有毒

It doesn't necessarily mean something bad

It

It means ans you get get dicicto it

It has something really funny or really bizarre in it

But toxic in english is definitely negative

When you say a toxic workplace or relationship

It means this type of workplace or relationship for affect you very very badly

For example in a toxic relationship

You might come constantly feel insecure

You would feel bad about yourself a lot of negative emotions

So we say being in a toxic relationship will make you extremely unhappy

So toxic is the winner of the year

But there are some more very interesting words in the shortlist

在shortlist

也就是冠军备选词里还有一些非常有意思的词

Now here i would like to share with you some the hottest words of the year

According to oxford dictionary

The first one is cakism

Dicism

Cake and ism roughly translated into 蛋糕主义

But it doesn't mean anything in chinese cake ism we have to go back to a prob in english

That says you can't have your cake and eat it too

在英文里有一句谚语叫做you can't have the cake and eat it too

It means if you have a cake

If you eat it

You no longer have the cake

So technically you cannot have it and eat it at the same time

You have to choose do either have it or eat it

有人说中文里翻译成鱼和熊掌不能兼得

其实我觉得更好的是又想马而跑又想马儿不吃草

Fundamentally you cannot do it

However cakism is used in the uk to describe in terms of breaxit 在脱欧里面

Some people believe they can leave eu

But still enjoy all the benefits they get from the eu

既想脱欧又想保有所有原来在欧盟里能享受的好处

So cakism is usually used to describe that you want both

But it's impossible to have both

因为second word in the short list is gas lighting

Gas

Gas lighting is just light

Gas light 是

是煤气

Ggas lighis ofoftrtranslated into 煤气灯操控

Show is actually a very negative word is described as the action of manipulating mean by psychological means is accepting of false depiction

Reality

Ality

Deulting their own sananity sounds really complex

Right

What it is is using psychological tricks to make people believe in something

That is not true

This word is originally from a movie

The nineteen forty four oscar winning film called gasollight 煤气灯下

In this film

A man is trying to trick his wife into believing that she is going crazy

She's insane

And how he did it

He did something to the gasollight

To make the gasollight keep going bright or demmer

通过操纵煤气灯忽明忽暗

让他的妻子对自己产生了强烈的质疑

And eventually this woman simply cracked and started to believe that she is going crazy

So now we use gas lighting usually in an abusive relationship

这种情感虐待的关系里面

One person is trying to manipulate the other person into believing something that's not true

I give you a simple example

If your dating someone and your boyfriend or your your girlfriend keeps telling you

Your ugly

You're ugly

You're ugly you should be very thankful that i'm with you

Because nobody else wants you

If he or she keeps telling you this and you 're a very sensitive person

Eventually you will start to believe you are ugly

Nobody wants you

So a very very negative power of suggestion

非常糟糕的一个心理暗示

非常负面的心理暗示

So gas slighting is a type of evil manipulation

嗯

The next word is orbiting

Orbit in itself is orbit 轨道

So think about a satellite orbiting the earth

比如说环绕地球在轨道运转的卫星

But here orbiting is not relating to technology is actually a word relating to human relationships

This is a specific situation

Where people you are in a relationship with they suddenly stop talking to you

They stop communicating with you

However they're still following you on social media

就是这种突然跟你断掉联系

但是仍然会点赞你的社交网络发的信息的这种人

So for example

You say he or she is still orbiting me on social media

And this is believe to be something that you see in modern dating

That people want to keep you in their orbit

They want to be close enough to see each other

But far enough never to talk a few years ago

There was a buzword called ghosting

Ghost ing

Ghosting is another dating behavior

It means people you 're in a relationship with they suddenly just disappear from your life washzone 叫ghosting

And now this orbiting means theare not exactly disappearing they just stopped communicating with you

But there's still somehow following you on social media

They still have an online presence

嗯

So today we explored some of the hottest words of the year

According to oxford dictionaries the two thousand eighteen oxford word of the year is toxic

And then we also looked that some of the words in shortlist including cakism

Gasolating and orbiting language is so fascinating

Because it never stops evolving

And it is the basis of our lives of human interactions

So maybe instead of thinking

All have so many words to remember

Have so many words to memorize

It's so tough think about it this way

There are so many new words for us to explore

And if you're going into the cultural background of these words learning can be a lot more fun

And that's all i want to say today again

That's big thanks to all of your support

I'll see you next time bye