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嗯 Hi
Everyone
And welcome back to happy hour
欢迎回来酒馆
Hi Alen Hi
Lady
Hi have you one
So we weare waggoodbye to twenty twenty five bh bye and ringing to the new year
I thought you're going to have a response to that like so what i said hello all right
So i thought it's one of those time
That it's you don't usually take stock of what you have done
What you fail to do this year
And look into the future
How about we do that yep
So it's the time of the year
When we start thinking about new year resolutions
Yeah
And give ourselves almost like a annual review way to make something really personal sound like work isn't it well to be perfect honest
That's exactly what it isn't it
It
给自己的年终总结
Yeah
We have that feeling of optimism
But also dread
Because we know what's going to happen
We sign up for the german january
We feel bad by february
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And we still pay until maybe
May or do have you been looking at my phone or something no
But i would say pretty much
Most people are doing exactly the same thing
So i'm hearing
I shouldn't feel bad about mself self
I'm not enououfall but alright
Yeah
Ususuat this time of year be a little mmlically
Because obvivisly another page has turned
You also feel that pressure
Yes
Like now is time to look back at twenty twenty five
All these in chinese we say all these flags
Yeah
You have erected
这些leader flag 有没有达成
First all let me me
You before before get
Get into the year year resolution
So and line have you set yourself any goals in twenty twenty five
That you may or may not have achieved well carry on working now i would
Would
That i was done
That i did say that i was going to do my chinese exam
Do the hsk
Which i've been safe for the past few years
Still
Still haven't done
Can
Can lalame about better well yeah
I do yeah
You medn't just lllmake me me work all the time well exactly that's what i'm saying to myself
I'm a convenient
Excuse you are incredibly convenient excuse
So yeah
I would say some of it's been successful
Some of it hasn't been in particular convenient learning and studying
Because i just haven't had the time
Because how about yourself um
I would say i'm a bright side
All of the work related goals were achieved
Yes
I did over four hundred lifestreams a year exhausted we launch all the courses that we talked about it
Yeah
And something dididn't ct ct laununch that trtrue jojoguan has been growing upsteadily at the about meeting our expectations
But all of my personal al als not so much
Ook about reading
How many books or about losing weade exercising not so much
Even very simple goals like finishing
Like a sweater
I still haven't yeah like in terms of meeting
No i know what is like
It is one of those things
And this is really kind of what we can be discussing today
Um
It's why new year
Why is do we have the sudden impulse
It's a publicly or privately to think about self imcusment on is specifific atent in a date
Why is it new year
Why is it not another time of the year
But i think it's quite naturals in it
Because this is the time of the year
That you really like you could see
And you could really acutely tely feel the passage of time yes
就你能真的感觉resolution or so you have like an ear and review yeyes you said annual review and love companies do that 这个年终总结或者年终考核
Yes
Ah and then you sort of look into the future and a new year's resreslulution
Yes
就是所有利的这些flag
Yeah
I think it's also because we love the idea of a fresh start effect
Well exactly let's take a look at what all of these mean
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So the year and review is that sort of back acklock the mental or we chat highlight wheel um and all of the bluepers
As well so all of the mistakes
Even all the apps
Even my shopping apps
Even all king apps would give me an annual review
Yeah
Which is usually alarming
Yeah
I know my amazon account gives me an annual review
As well so it's all the things that we have done the good things and not so good things
Yeah
And then like i said it's a fresh start
Yes
A fresh start
It's like verdical is that a clean slate
Yeah 嗯
就是重新又开始
白纸一张就是从头始始
From very very ggning ning
Yeah
And there's also also behavioral scientists call a temporlandmark
Yeah 嗯
Like birthday start of a school term or naturally new year
It creates a psychological separation from our past self is like from the next day i will have a fresh start
And i will be a completely new lulu well
Yeah
And then you realize you have to self same person
Well
Exactly now the thing that i always fine is that i don't really feel that on my birthday
I don't
Don't really feel that a new years
That ah
Because i was think that january in the uk is really depressing
So it's not the best time to say okay
I'm going to start something completely new yebecause all you're thinking about is just skin through january
But think about in the uk you guys have dry january
Yeah
I would say that's kind of a fresh started efacct
What it is who when people after all these drinking and eating they're like no
I'm going to live a healthier or life yep
And then they remember that in the uk
The sun rises is out eight o'clock in the morning sets it for five o'clock
So it's a great idea in principle
But let's be honest
But let's best best time of year
My birthis in the spring
Um for for me
It's bit more natural
是是
Have you ever heard of the idea of the quitter 's
Yes yes
It's that infamous second friday in january statistially when most people abvent soluluyes yeah
That is actually a thing well
And i think remember reading somewhere that a lot of games
Ms most of their money in january well to be honest
James make money from people who don't go
Precisely to reward those people who do go yes
But jokes aside
Let's talk about the global ritual
This is not just for a specific culture or specific countries for every human
Hm
Let's maybe dive deeper into the origin of it
Yeah
And i'll give it to you
Because you're more knowledge
Bondness
Okay Well
Four thousand years ago
Believe it or not they were making resolutions
This is back to the barylonians 啊
巴比伦
古巴比伦人
So during the twelve day new year festival
They make promises to the gods to repay dedeths and return bold arm equipment
So ep in that men en had favor the gods loved you in the coming year
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And also in rome as well so january
The word january comes from janus
No Genoor
Jananus is the two faced god of beginnings
Not two faces like dishonest literally
He had two faces
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So he was looking back and looking forward 啊like a door way
Exactly
And then christians adopted the first yethe year for more reflection
So it was going the idea that this is a day
That you think about what you want to do you take stock or what you've done
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So either a secular or spiritual people take stock yeah
Prely at the turn of the new year
And then of course the modern commercialized ritual if you fasfast
Ward ard
Today
Today
This whole hash tag new year
New tion yeah
New year resolution
What
Whatever all these similar hash tax yeah
They
They have billions of use honestly it's a gold mine for industries
Like you said gym membership
Diet programs
Language or other learning apps
All the planets i used to buy like a notebook
You know one of those planners yeah
At the end of every year
And i usually can manage to fill it in for that yeah
Actually think about it
The first week yeah
Of the year yeah
And then it is remains black yeah
No
I'm exactly the same thing
But all of this comes from the same idea
Whever ver your promisse in babylonian god that you who turn your neighbors spade
But promising pleaton that you use their bike every day
It's still the same thing
It's a cultural moment
Ent try
Try to be human beings have never really changed
They haven't
And now it's bebecome big multibillion dollar industry
That's built on hope and also algue
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