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Hi everyone

And welcome back to the segment

Called also that's why

原来如此 Hi

Alan

Hi lilhi

Hi everyone

So in this segment

Allen and i will take a closer

Look at some of the behaviorvirituals

Customs in western culture or in cultures general andict deep try to find its origin stories

Yes

So can i propose a topic

Yeah

So as where approaching

When we're recording this

Where approaching the national day

Liliday

Yes

This is like a beautiful time of the year

A lot of people in china will choose to get

Married to have their wedding ceremony around this time

I have

Yeah

So when it comes to wedding rituals

Obviously different culture have lots of different customs

Rituals during the ceremony

Yeah

I have seen in some western culenglish speaculture as well that people

People throw rice yeyes

Traditionally

Yes

But nowadays most people would for confetty

Confetty at those like this little bits of collored paper

Right Yeah

Thethey're really the sparkly paper for they usually have like a confetty gun or something that shoots it out

No what because of they or did just throw it

They row it

I've seen fefeting probably not gun is a bit

Is a different word

But it's a confetty gun

But yeah

Confetty gun litergo everywhere so yeah

Okay

So people just i remember being in chinese weddings said they did that maybe

It's something something borrow from the west maybe

But 就那个庆祝的那种五彩纸屑叫confetty

Yes so as you said there was a tradition that people nethrow rice at the newly wets

That's fine

So where does that come from

Well it comes from ancient cultures

So the rooms used to throw wheat or grain to wish the couple to have lots of children and er food fulife yeh because like wheat or graater good ootheyprobably ly mbolilize things like fertility yeah and persperity froout 的土地

And then you know have lots of kids no exactly

And also rice is a stable food in many many cultures

So it's a symbol of life

It's a symbol abundundance

And also a symbol of new beginnings

Well well ah ah know that a few times i heard it

I saw it in the movies or tv shows

They were discussing if we go by tradition and throw rice at the newly weds

But we also have like duoufs at the wedding

Yeah

Well the duvs eat the rise and die well the whole problem with rise apparently if you give rice to birds

It expands in their stomach

Yeah

And it can kill

So i guess you can't have both

You can't have both

And also that's why lots of people stopped foreiand rice because it is dangerous to the wordlife is dangerous to birds

Yeah

But you said rice being stable

就是是很多文化里面的主食to symbolizes live abundance to 这种丰扰

And new beginings do you know that

I think in touwest rituals at least some best that i've read in china or entousance most rituals they actually through riice

When during a barial service

Yeah

Barial ceremony

I think in that sense riice is from to find off evil spirits and keep their loved ones who have passed away safe ok

And every new year yeah

Because for us threign riice or flower pettles or anything like that

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Dried flowers or sweets or even money is a way of showing life

It's a way of showing prosperity and fertility

Ah i guess it will be a symbol of prosperity

If you throw money away

Well Yeah

We don't folrow a way you throw it at the newly words

So for example that us well in some cultures

They will pin bank notes to the wedding dress

And

And that's a way of going to share in gifts

You pin it

You pin it yeah

Well all gueguest all the guewill will all come up

And othe bribdes dress they will pin money

And it's a way of basic given the money

Wow

I've never seen that yeah

I think it's in greece

It's a great tradition

Okay

So that's very interesting instead of giving red envelope like we do you just pinut on her dress

Yeah

And obviously kind of they probably have like soft strans that you can pin the too you don't do ruin in dress

Yes

But the whole idea is that you can have pin the money

And the bode will just walk around covered in all of the money

可以对不对

Yeah

I think a lot of the wedding rituals in any culture is mostly about wishing the newly weet fertility have kids

Prosperity have money yeah

And just generally living a happy healthlife

Precisely yeah

But a lot of those are no longer practice

Like we said for a rice perhaps for safety reasons

Yes and also sometimes for environmental reasons

Because it takes us a lot of time to really clean

If you throw come ftty everywhere it does

It does so some places allow it

Other places done um

But it's usually part of the wedding photos so in

In britain

The wedding photos are taken on the same day as the wedding um usually you have the premony

Then you have the wedding photos

And then you will go and have the meal so at that moment

People might frorow confetty um

This is what i'm noticed

So i've been to my share of weddings yeah

You see in china

So for our audience in china

When we say 婚纱照

结婚job

We think about either the one that you take at the box standard one you take at the registration office ice like hiire boook standard

No it is bobox standard yeah

Or the ones that you hire photographer to ice

Or the taken on completely a separate day and touched up and everything

But in the uk seems people's weding photos are really just wedding photos from that day

That's it they don't even photoshop at that much

So it's really to capture the moment

Not to achieve the perfect result yeah

So some abvery sesely do try to get the wedding photos perfect

But

But that's not very common

Yeah

Uk yeah

But bovily see you all dressed up there lots of fun moment

As a lot of moving moments

So i'm pretty sure with a good cameramman you

You will still get even spontaneously you get a lot of fun and photojanic moments

Yeah

Exactly so before we finished leus some of the expressions so for example we say to throw row riice or comfeti at the newly wets

Yes you people just got married or you shower them with love and good wishes

Literally to shower or you love and good wishes

By the way you can also shower someone with gift or shower someone we praise yeyou

You wish them a life full of joy and success

Yes and we also mentioned throwing rise or confetity is a symbol of fertility yeah and abundance

So abundance means ans having a lot of something um and fertility just means having kids

But it's he to have kids all grow food um

So that we can all celebrate the union

The fact that they are together

Yes and all of this is part of a joyful send of so so like a happy weighand the wedding ceremony

I love the word d sandolh is just sounds like that's end end yeah

You're off to your married life

Exactly a big sandoff

A joyful sandoff h okay

So that and today's episode leave us comment the comment section share with us some of the wedding rituals that you know or you have experienced or put in your request for any other things that you want us to talk about in this segment

See you next time

Until next time will see you next time

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