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Respect that you think you could have you on talking about it and twist ing is a little bit twisted ideas like yeah but you get a point is like you think that you should be respected but actually people dont respect you know who listen to any of you really agree with these statements you think you should be respected but actually la time people in reality on top so I think

The foundation of getting respect should be do not have respect automatically you actually deserves respect by working hard for it you re talking about you only deserve respect if you put your effort into doing something so successfully that people could really respect you people would not automatically respect a weak person or a week stuff maybe thats something that is out of the picture maybe something that is out of line maybe there is something is out of the world because we always talk about we should respect people are mentally and everybody have human right yes the thing is is really important

Know you dont deserve Dis respect automatically you are talking about people are really smart no matter we are talking about Chinese people Korean people Japanese people Spanish people American people in the UK people people are really smart so if youre not re spec ting people

Or if you see a es giving a harsh words words like no I m not giving a hard time the thing is you really if you are our efforts you are talking about if you add a lazy person in that group

How would you expect other people to respect you

Because you are falling behind and you are not when you are a yes man you dont talk about o den

S na fu okay because you know what happened is people got to see your checks you just like you er e the player just like trying to follow us dream and you know follow everybody foot steps you are you think you think you are smart people can see you or maybe there was pretty is pretty good you know among the people among the team members but there are all you think you are just like one level above us or maybe you maybe you maybe find it al and so you dont talk about is is really common in a large Li fashion

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Music music and movies and I love all kinds of movies and den you talk about politics and economics I can always talk a lot of different stuff with you so many people ask me this question is ha

I work so hard work so hard actually in a team but uh my team leader socks

Because this person this person is even younger than me

I said do not have you dont have to worry about it you got to worry about to sings for possible

Are you not ambitious enough

You gotta pay attention to the culture difference between a western countries and Chinese and China is

In western countries is more like people just want to focus on their own thing like for example you b de b de engineer de b de engineer for the whole of their re fe Ren a transfer to them an a to re ul position and pay from being an engineer To Be promoted to love what they do dont have To Be a so called wash man

Not everyone not everybody want a b de want a b de boss but in China our men o if you are just like engineer you must be lower than your superior you must be lower than so called a superior title

But you know we dont care you can go out and start your own company and you re who you know nothing of Chinese a min is tre Shun philosophy is like we do not really want able person to manage the whole team because we have a lot of a people who want them to compete with each other and consume each other then bounce an observation al or any some books about business administration or management some stuff

To say that this is why a being a superior a is is easier than in China because all you have to do is do nothing and you just play them even if you know something you have to pretend that you dont know anything you let them to compete with each other and I ask you you can never be too smart 啊

To operate your own business or to invest in other places of course but de can t always got to shift the focus so de do not get To Blame

Actually you know it smart smart because they cannot make money of all if you wanna make the best money you gotta be your own boss you to start your own company

Maybe today will be talking about here is a little bit a shady but thats definitely de truth at least my observation in ah a lot of people re ro us all my r myself I had a lot of experience you know I graduate from university now a year two thousand seven and I started even before I graduate from university in o a o six I got ah good prize in a competition English speech competition contest and I get picked by some top industry institutions

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搜I just you know basically China y I had a lot of international cooperation project with a lot of international music business people or you know a lot OS and doing some international business project before I had started my own company before so

Yeah you can I m proud To Be but I think I can understand more than most of its overseas return es um you know let me talk to your life is no there is no comparison between a mb we are different individuals so proud of myself so confident time also eager to learn to learn that I guess that I get from people cannot keep learning the right attitude be confident but do not b arrogant re really important

So lets go back the thing is

Do not complain about you are not have ing respect I see a lot of people

Like you know I used to work ina

Manufacture company is like you know some high level some middle level management or top engineering is just like thirty five years old for their leaders were younger than them their leaders is like twenty seven twenty eight

And I dont know about a money maybe to actually get more money than our leaders yeah I think because they are good engineers but the leaders were control them so de can also be referred only ne way so um

So de ask me describing a Jackie m s od satisfied with my current position so I would ask the question what do you want

First

Or you want risks but be successful

Are you a person who is willing to embrace the challenges in your life

When you want if you wanna be an official said like you wanna be promoted engineering background but you gotta pay attention to d human management skills or sometimes its not even that management is all about like struggle is all about how to use other people and how they d ra mass a om out of nowhere re mark a its real and lead based on my observation a lot of less meat level leaders they are really shady dont know nothing there are just so stupid

They are just trying to keep their jobs to keep their jobs and there won t want to carry out de boss meaning or the companies decision and you want to play de person

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Played a role in title to do that so let stalk about a difference between the American corporation culture and Chinese corporation culture Chinese people are more were more like um compliant with the traditional regulations and we do not wanna become a maverick or de same situation goes true with American companies because you know where you think their money come from right it is from exploit Asian it is a real thing is the same thing everywhere if you are just like employees no matter what kind of position you have your exploit ID but of course is out of your own will and you are during contribution to complain a contribution to the company during contribution to society to customer the circle is in close the circle everybody agree with that right far

Culture day will just move around

Ra ro says oh its more likely that day would quit your job and started her own business or maybe to Co operate to maybe to work for an other company or something de tri de can be promoted in other company and de can do the same trick to other people or maybe de can re tally h us ton what is de pi us level of retaliation

The highest level of retaliation is never re by et al association itself its by your own success and just dont care about them every time when we had a crisis in a company guess who who will be left

Who will you know who have to leave the company

Sometimes is a structural change like a merger happened

So we had a purchase to your company a mid level management you gotta go fuck off so simple

I give you some composition you get the fuck off

Excuse my language but thats a real re out his right shoe

Respect is not something that you automatically and respect everybody but in real life is na to the jungle rules

Who has the most power

Does power might be your effort your in div ers your contribution to the company that everybody can see or your personality or your knowledge or expert es

But sometimes do not value power in a similar way sometimes more power you have the more

Here you got from your boss or from your colleagues that might be a good second that you can start your own stuff you can start your own business do not say oh I m not welcome

If you were just work like a sore loser you gotta be loser for all your life so many people is a o I dont know y

I was picked down the reason you was picked down you will pick down maybe you know

Various like

It could be lacking of ability so you are eliminated

It could also be

You are you are so good you can talk about you are so good and you anymore and there were fears ul of your competition even inside a company you are given to people so its a good signal that you are hated that is good because every successful people every famous before you know good art runners who doesnt know there are always a lot of haters even be a gate SP ou mask and Jack ma you know who you know 呃

认真fe u know any of these people get haters

Oh she ve jo

Right or c g I in so d got hit ers a lot so thats a signal that you can be your own man and build your own team talk about talk about a dozen always equals respect

Because if you always sacrifice yourself

I m not trying to dart u 黑化no I m not trying to think for yourself you got a contribution to complain that you work for you gotta have some basic virtue but sometimes at the same time do not forget about you are a independent individual

That you got a brighter future so a lot of times when asked this question are you ready to start to own business if not build skills towards it

Thats really important trust me you will never regret your choice have balls do not be afraid of losing your status or losing your reputation fuck them OK starting on stuff

If you always hunt in the past you cannot move on when you re es people cant get out

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De than some bad things for themselves to commit suicide in a lot some celebrity there were Hun ted by their past experience and some ones but if you were part and by that you cannot get up you can talk about you gotta be a strongest line and jungle you can never be de ter up re of the line you have To Be the hunter lines or you can be a line by yourself at least you are Peter

Okay so does some of some of my thoughts on respect

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