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今天呢
要和大家分享一篇书斋
这篇书斋节选自the rollless travelled 少有人走的路
他的作者是美国非常著名的作家
医学博士和心理治疗大师m
Scott pack
The roadwest travl 的是一本非常通俗的心理学著作
它跨越了时代的限制
帮助我们去探索爱的本质
今天我所摘选的是true listening
真正的聆听
我们来看一下作者是如何从爱的角度阐述聆听的
以及当我们在真正聆听的时候
心灵上所产生的变化
True listening total concentration on the other is always a manifestation of love
An essential part of true listening is the discipline of bracketing
The temporary giving up or sitting aside one's own prejudices frames of reference in desire as it experience as far as possible the speaker's world from ininstesteinside his or her shoes
This unification of speaker and listener is actually an extinction
Any largement hselves and new knowledge is always gained from this moreover
Since true isin a evolve bracketing
A setting aside of the self
It also temporary involves the total acceptance of the other
Since in his acceptance
The speaker will feel less and less vulnerable and more and more inclined to open up the inner recesses of his or her mind took listener as this happens
Speaker and listener began to appreciate each other
More and more
And the stew at dance of love is again begun the energy required for the discipline of bracketing and the focusing of total attention is so great
They can be accomplished only by love
By the will to extend oneself for mutuor growth
Most of the time we lack this energy even though we may feel in aa business dealings or social relationship
That we are listening very hard
We were usually doing is listening
Selectively with the presset agenda in mind wondering as we listen
How we can achieve certain desired results and get a conversation over with as quickly as possible or directed in ways more satisfactory to us
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