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今天我们来读一篇文章
Reactions to avoid with the yellow
Reaction 指的是反应的意思
Avoid 是避免
而yellow 就是yell 的一个名词形式
它指的是发怒的人
嘶吼的人
这个标题意思就是呢
如何去应对那些发怒的人
有时候很难避免跟你的朋友或是家人甚至是上司同事呢
产生一些争执
如果这个争执到了一种不可收拾的地步呢
那么有人就会喊出来
那如何去应对这种非常尴尬非常难以收拾的场面呢
那今天我们就来通过这篇文章来学习一下一些可以让你们彼此都平静处理问题的一个技巧
再来听这几个小技巧之前呢
我们先来学习几个生词
第一个mirror
我们大多数呢
会把这个单词用作名词
指的是镜子的意思
但是在这个文章当中呢
它用的是一个动词
指的是反射反应的意思
Mayor their behavior 就是反射出他们一样的行为跟动作
就是跟他们一样的意思
Refuse 本意是传播和私散
在文章当中呢
他用到的是refuse here
就是让一个生气的人消气
Feeling to 指的是注入提供饮料的意思
比如说助长他们销央的气焰
Feeling to their anger ascess 评定评估
Subsequently 指的是紧跟其后的condone 指的是宽恕赦免的意思
Get one's way 就指的是让某人随心所欲
为所欲为
文章当中讲到了
如果你任由他对你嘶吼喊叫
然后你还很顺从
那么以后呢
他就会随心所欲的向你大喊大叫了
Address 又提出或者处理的意思来
听一下这个文章的开头
Reactions to avoid with the yellow
The worst poble ble reaction to yellow is to miror their behavior
Things do not go well
If you yell is someone who is yelling at you
There are better ways to deal with yelellow well
Or the steps you should use to handle and hopefully defuse a yellow
这段话大意就是呢
就是当一个人发怒的时候
你跟他一样
Mairor their behavior 就是跟他们一样的意思
其实这是最差的一种反应了
那么其实因为你们大喊大叫根本解决不了问题
那么接下来呢
就有一些好方法
们就会继续来听这些方法
那如果想听到完整版的讲解呢
请微信搜索卡卡课堂
One stay calm
And don't fit into their anger
Remember that
When a person's yelling
It is not you that has the problem
It is
Then it is not worth fitding into their yelling
As the situation will just get worse
And things are rarely resolved
When two parties are yelling at one
Another
Two take a mental step back to assess the situation
Before taking any action in the situation posmentally to assess things
This will allow you to figure out to whether it is worth waiting out the yellow or to leap the situation
Three do not agree with yelellow to defuse them
As it encourages future yelling
If you agree with the yellow to defuse them
And subsequently agree to do something or say something that they're asking you are condoning their yelling by being agreeable to someone who's yelling at you
It only encourages them to yell at you together away in the future for calmly address the yielling let the person
Know that you will not accept being yelled at regardless of the situation or problem say is politely uncalmly
And you're more likely to have a possisive reaction such as an apology
Or at least to make them aware
That they're in fact yelling
Some people don't even realize they're yelling
Then your next step is to ask for breakaway from this person
Five ask for a ak ak this person
When when 're asasking for a break from the person
It shall be more of a statement than a question
Especially
If not your boss
If it's a spououse friend or someone else it is completely acceptable state that you need a break and time to to think things through order
Order to responapapproately and calmly six
When you feel your emotions have calm down
And you know how to address whatever it was they were yelling about you can now go back to talk to the person